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Equality of Genders

Updated: Sep 14, 2020

Islam is not a religion for men only. The universe is not for the enjoyment of men only. The divine commandment inviting people to explore the creation is not for men only. The divine guidance inspiring people to explore the beauty of the universe is not for men only. Yet, in God's name, men have remained the primary beneficiaries of the divine blessings spread in our material world since time immemorial.

Women are assigned a reproductive role coupled with the responsibilities of raising and grooming babies. Men are considered superior based on their financial contributions to their families.

Although divine guidance promotes equality of genders, women have played a secondary role in society because of their financial dependence upon men. Denied education and even the right to choose their spouses, men objected to the right to work, even though the clergy never prohibited unpaid labor in fields and farms as domestic servants for the rich and wealthy.

Denied entry into masajid because God is happier with men's presence in the houses built in His name. Even though the House, known as the first House dedicated to one God, men and women stand shoulder to shoulder without fearing each other. Yet, the clergy placed restrictions on their entry to masajid elsewhere.

And when the women visited the markets as they had no place in masajid, they were condemned by the same clergy. Their place in the clergy's views was home, where they must remain confined like a prisoner for 24 hours waiting for the permission of men to go out if they had to. When out in public, they must wrap them so that no one can look at them if their iman slips away from their grip.

Often, it did not matter whether they were healthy or sick because their job was to take care of their husbands' needs and desires. The husband's importance supreme that religious authorities convinced women that the angels would curse her if she did not sexually satisfy her husband at night. Men were have given the privileges to keep four wives at one time with no restrictions on divorce. The rights were for the rich and resourceful to have concubines with no limits. Of course, not content with these privileges, the clergy came up with temporary marriage practice from a few hours of unspecified time. The name of God and his prophets, a woman's body, was put at the mercy of sexually starving men to please the divine. What a profanity it was in the name of God who was projected by the clergy to be deeply concerned about men's sexual needs.

The clergy even told women if God had permitted prostration to anyone other than him, it would be the husband because even if a woman licks her husband's open and leaking wounds, she can not express her gratitude to him.

It was the right of men to correct their wives by hitting them as long as it did not cause severe injuries—emotional and psychological scars resulting from this act were immaterial..

Women were considered the daughters of Satan, temptress, and seductress. Their presence in the Masajid was an act of profanity. If they used perfume while visiting the Masajid, they were no different than fornicators, whose prayers would be rejected for forty days by the merciful and the compassionate. In some societies run in God's name, they were still a threat to God and His guidance if they were found behind the wheels driving the 19th-century invention.

The clergy told women to cover from head to toe so no man can ever be closer to sins. After all, in the clergy's minds, God was more concerned about men's religious purity as women were Satan's daughters.

Even though men commit most rapes in our world today, women are held responsible for seducing me to sin. They are either stoned to death or flogged and humiliated in front of people by the clergy that reminds people to cover others' secrets as God would cover theirs.

So passionate and forceful were the arguments that both men and women agreed that only when the male's superiority is recognized and established in the family and society, God becomes happy

Women accepted this role. They had to. In a world dominated by violence and power, where they had less exposure to Allah's universe, where the doors of education were always closed or selectively opened, and where they were financially dependent upon men, they had no alternative but to be a shadow of men.

Even in our world today, they are not viewed as equal. They exist to please men. Their intellect and their abilities to contribute to the progress of human society are still unrecognized. It is a male chauvinistic society that still passes judgment on their lifestyle regardless of what it is. It is the male the superiority that is the will and desire of God, regardless of whether He is also the creator of the other gender.

No one usually thinks in the terms mentioned above when describing the mother, daughter or sister. Still, when the discussion is about wives or women in general, all that is said above becomes acceptable.

We have relegated 50 percent of our population to a status of nonentity. We have denied it the role that the creator of the universe had assigned to them, the role of an active participant, and an equal partner in constructing a human society and civilization in every aspect of life.

History has proved that we have not been just to them totally, because we have not been. Despite all that we quote from the scriptures or the life of Prophet Muhammad, we are still unfair to women, and we justify our injustices in the name of God and His messengers.

We still all have our male chauvinistic attitude dominant in our thinking. How could we accept them as equals when they are dependent on us financially? How could we trust them with their own life and character, when we are assigned the role to be the leader? We have to be their guardian and gatekeepers; otherwise, they would be tumultuous in our world and would lead us to hellfire? What an irony, in the hope of saving ourselves from hellfire, we have created a hellfire for them and us in the world, something that God warned us about:

O you who beleive1 Save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stone. (66:6)

It is what our clergy promotes in general.

The only way this attitude towards women would change when both men and women de-learn what they have learned about women's status. Through dialogue and open communication, they need to develop a realistic understanding of both men and women's divine guidelines.

The true change would come when women would become economically independent when a man would not exploit their financial dependence to deny them the right that God has given them. When proper understanding of men and women's divine message would become clear, men would not view women as objects created to satisfy them or seductress or weak and unequal. They would view them as equal with unrestricted rights to explore this universe, contribute to human progress, be inventors, be scientists, be rulers, be judges, be activists in every aspect of life, and be leaders of even men. Didn't the creator of the universe tells us:

"And their Lord has accepted of them, and answered them: "Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you, be he male or female: You are members, one of another…" (3:195

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